Pretense to be good is best when it become a default practice!

We often do things or act in ways to impress others that we rarely carry on for ever. After the initial period of discovery, thrill and the sense of accomplishment, we forget that the person still expects the same treatment that was bestowed upon him/her initially, and vice versa.


Life would be so much easier without pretense and artificial emotions... easier for others to comprehend and see 'the real us'? But, would we lose all that we have attained if we show our true self?


But then, doesn’t this desire to be liked by others brings out the good person for a few seconds… and we continue to be ‘good’ till the time we are with that person? So, is it not better that we remain good for at least some part of the day and give the person the benefit of bringing out the good person from the beast within us.


I guess, if we all just pretend to be good to others... there is hope that in the long run, our pretense solidifies into our personality and becomes a part of our personality.

What's stopping us?

Doesn’t it seem at times, like there’s a great deal to be done… to begin some thing…bring to an end many things around us! And yet, when you want to take time out to start something, you wait for that push…that push from outside, to pull out all that you have built up inside - all that love, urge to help somebody, the aspiration to ‘change the world’, the desire to be something, the need to possess ‘that’?


Why does it have to be ‘that something’ to occur to let our good self come out? Have we forgotton to be ourselves so much so that, we always need that push from outside to ‘move’ us…towards us?


Why can’t we just start with the things our heart beats the most for? Where is the barrier that stops us from being ourselves...inside us or outside?

God, positivity and hope!

Very often we are in the midst of situations where one feels so distant from God, that, the idea of God seems the creation/imagination of some hopeless chap who could be of much help to himself, and the foolishness of the entire atheist world. Times, when we were cheated, defeated, left lonely and dry, and so forth are times when our belief in ourself is tested the most. Our belief in ourself makes us go that exta mile, or the lack of it makes us fall prey to adverse situations.


I guess, people have also thanked “someone” when they were rescued and saved from disaster. Or, thanked “someone” to be God-sent, just in time to help us out.


So, is God in us, outside us… or, only in the positivity of our individual thoughts?
The answer to this will certainly make us a believer or non-believer in that “someone”.


And this mystery lets us believe in 'hope' and brings out the fighter in us!

believe in 'us'

My brain is always churning ideas my body is so lazy to act upon. I always feel there’s so much to be done - why everyone (but me!) isn’t doing to save this world! Why does everyone for haven’s sake not believe in us 'human beings' as one community? Why does it take an adversity to bring out the saviours in ourselves to defend our own kind?